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Boyfriend or doormat?

Posted by ConquistadorMale_sign

The first 2 yrs of our relationship was great. But then I sort of became his slave—cooking and cleaning and whatever he wanted. Then I found out he cheated on me so we separated. Now we’re moving back together. Am I INSANE? Or just lonely? Would you t

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answered by Anonymous

"wow it is insane... and id have to go with doormat unfortunately but this relationship isnt healthy... its borderline abusive in my mind though i may be wrong but anyways i just think u need to move on and find a guy that will be equals with u in the relationship, so i know its easier said then done but u have to get someone else"

answered by BMM102030Male_sign

"Wake up and smell the co-dependency! "

answered by Anonymous

"Your crazy to do that but I wish you luck. Hope it works out buddy"

answered by Anonymous

"You answered your own question. You need to love yourself enough to stand up and say, "I am worth more than what you are willing to give". You may be in fear of being alone because you think you need someone else to 'complete' you. You should run for the hills (if it's not too late already). I had a similar experience when I was just becoming an adult. Joined the military and it was the best thing I could have done. Being on the other side of the world and still able to exist on my own (and having a a good time at it), showed me that I didn't NEED that person to make me happy. I am guessing moving to the other side of the earth isn't really a viable option, but you need to separate yourself and begin living for YOU. "

answered by Hal74Female_sign

"I know what you mean. I was in a relationship and marriage where I did everything and my husband did slim to none. We had a child together and he still didn't do anything. So I really got tired of that so I left him and we are getting a divorce. True, everything was good in the beginning, but after I got tired of doing everything and him doing nothing, I was ready to leave. Part of the reason I stayed is because I had a child with him. Then at one point I pictured killing him with a knife, then I knew it was time for me to go. When it gets to that point, leave and don't look back. I confronted him all the time about his actions. He changed for a little while and then it started all over again, and again. I chose happiness over misery. Leaving him was the best thing I have done since graduating from college and raising my daughter."

answered by amandalcFemale_sign

"Look up 'Co-Dependency"...there's lots to read online...that will answer all your questions.... "

answered by shaneMale_sign

"It sounds like he doesn't respect you and misses the cooking and cleaning you provided. He wants his slave back, and it sounds like he negotiated a reunion with you without making any concessions. That should be a big red flag things won't be better. I would recommend considering "shopping around" and trying new guys. I'm curious though. This video was posted one day ago but you said "August". Is there a 4 month lag on the public viewing of these videos?"

answered by Jim1202Male_sign

" So what is it that he contributes to your life? I've been there and found that the more compromises I made for the guy the less he appreciated me and the less I respected myself. In the end it came down to choosing the relationship (which I wasn't happy in anyways but felt "secure") or my self-worth. Self-worth won out. You deserve someone that puts you first once in awhile too."

answered by coolgeekygirlFemale_sign

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