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I HATE my BFF's boyfriend. Should I tell her?
Posted by SuperGirl
Aaaaargh! This guy is SUCH a loser. He sponges off her and treats her like crap. How do I tell her that I can’t stand him without ruining our friendship?
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answered by Anonymous
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answered by Anonymous
"GET HELP"
answered by Anonymous
" NEWS FLASH....IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU STUPID!!!!"
answered by Anonymous
"wow! I have a similar problem and I've learned to keep my mouth shut about it and when i can't any longer...I take some quality time to myself. but honestly if your friend has such a loser boyfriend...what's that say about her?"
answered by moonkist
" Do you hate him because he's the one she wants to spend time with rather than you?
You can let her know he's not adding value to her life without flat out saying "I hate your boyfriend". Simple comments like "Wow Sue, before Joe you'd never have let the cat do that!" can make the point without risking yourself.
HOWEVER - don't blame the disgusting lifestyle all on him -- they live together and she needs to take ownership of some of the situation too."
answered by sa033068
"talk to her about it once then let it go. when and if it goes bad be there for support and keep the "i told u so" to yourself "
answered by teejay0519
"Ever notice that when you put a bad dog with a good dog the good dog tends to turn bad? Same thing here. "Bad influence." u say that to her once and leave it alone. THen you emphasize it by inviting her to do things WITHOUT her BF. She'll respect that you honor the friendship but not her BF."
answered by jockwithbrains
"Boy, this is a tough one. On the one hand you should support any decision your GF makes. Mark Twain once said,
"the proper office of a friend is to side with you when you're wrong because nearly anyone will side with you when you're right." So maybe you should side with her AND tell her he's wrong for her. In other words, tell her you'll always stick by her but you have to tell her the truth..."
answered by MarilynD











