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Why do guys get intimidated by sex toys?
Posted by funkybrownchick
Is there a way to bring up the subject of sex toys without freaking out guys or making them think they're not good enough to satisfy me?
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answered by Anonymous
"You answered your question. you stated that the reason why you use them is because you think that the sex is being routine. In other words hes not enough to satisfy you.
You have to look at WHY you want or feel like you NEED the toys to achive orgasm.
To tell yourself that the man is enough you would be lieing to yourself.
Bringing out the toys confirms to the man that hes not enough to satisfy you.
Its really a slap in the face.
The cuffs are fine because they dont directly stimulate you.
How would you feel if the only way that he could get an erection is by watching porn during sex?
Or in order for him to orgasm he had to blurt out an ex's name?
Or in order for him to orgasm he had to look at a picture of angelina jolie?
Or during sex he chose to orgasm insdie a lovedoll and it was the only way for him to orgasm?
This is what that communicates to a man.
He needs to be better at sex, and you need to help him by telling him what you like.
It would be different if you were doing it because your being adventurous and wanting to try new things.
However, it sounds to me like your doing it for the wrong reasons.
"
answered by Anonymous
"girly!they think there better than them"
answered by Helper-askme.babyg
"They are afraid the toys will be better than them. Assure your man that a toy cannot replace a human. "
answered by Anonymous
"Girl honestly because they may be afraid they wont messure up or it could be because they think they should be enough or maybe it is freaky to him and he don't like it it freaks him out try letting him control the toys hope this helps!.....lol ....peace out!"
answered by Anonymous
"Try using it on a guy for anal stimulation. Its where the male g spot is."
answered by Anonymous
"I think it makes them feel like they're not doing a good job...break 'em in slowly. the real ones stay and make the best of it!"
answered by moonkist
" The absolute truth: Only insecure men fear them.
I love them, and they are a regular part of our sex ife. I encourage her to use them even in my absence if she has the desire. I am not the least bit threatened by a stupid vibrator. Get real!
Anything that makes her feel sexy, horny, good, satisfied, or whatever is fine and encouraged by me..."
answered by alphawolf
"They are afraid that you will stick it in their pooper.
Seriously. "
answered by thebert
"my buddy and a female friend of mine hooked up together and were in a euphoric blissful state. they couldn't have been happier and of course he was hinting for sex, she was holding off. finally she agreed. they had sex but this was also the time she busted out her 10 inch dildo - and my buddy was heading for the door. i think it is stupid. a toy cannot replace a man. at the same time, i think girls are insecure with their man with porn as men are with women having large toys. human nature's greatest battle is not among the body & blood but rather the spiritual real. we fight everyday of our life battling what i call "internal negativity" that voice in your head thats negative & destructive. men & women both battle this. its all can be fixed with communication. i spoke to a couple before - a girl who was mad at her mad for porn & would keep tabs on him watching it - while the bf was pissed she had toys when he was insecure about his size. its all about the love. communicate. work it out people."
answered by Jamestown0101











