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answered by Anonymous

"Hang in there as long as you can. You've also probably been in relationships where the girls lived close to you and you aren't in those situations either. GIVE IT A TRY!!! As long as you talk to her, be open and honest, FAITHFUL! I know lots of people who have married someone after being in long distance relationships for years! And they are happy! "

answered by Anonymous

" Here's a good website that might help: http://www.lovingfromadistance.com and don't assume that a long distance relationship is doomed from the start! They can work!"

answered by Anonymous

"Only you can tell if it's worth the heartache. You seem to be already in the process of "risking a long distance relationship", so why not see how it goes for a few months. Since you already know how difficult it can be, and you see your self already embarking upon this, relax. The more pressure you put on this situation, the worse you will feel, the more difficult it will be. Hang in there until you feel the situation is not working for you and you are ready to let her go. "

answered by Anonymous

"It sounds like you are not into her as much as you think you are. If she is moving away and you are faced with a long distance relationship, you need to ask yourself if you plan to spend the rest of your life with her. It sounds like (from your two posts) that you are not THAT happy...is she really worth all of this? Also, is her move only temporary? If it is permanent, you may want to think about your future and whether or not you are prepared to move in order to be with her. If she is moving away, she has chosen the order of her priorities (doesn't mean they can't change someday). Maybe you are afraid of being alone? "

answered by Hal74

" I'm newly married and before that we had a 3 year long distance relationship. I've had another LDR before and I've promissed myself that it would never happen again. Well... when I learned that he was about to move to another city I had the same reaction that you're having. But I gave it a try.... 3 years later we got married! Now, this is the most important part... you have to trust each other.... you have to let each other live their own life (hangging out with friends, that kind of stuff). I did NOT heard you say that you love her... But if you do, give it a try... "

answered by Linda

"I guess it really depends on if you are in a place in your life to where you want to date more women or not. Do you think this woman is the 'one'? If your in love with her, then I would at least give it a shot. But don't let the frustrations of finding a new girlfriend hold you back, you don't want to settle for a long distance relationship if you don't think you want to spend forever with her. Personally I wouldn't want to have a long distance relationship unless I was planning on moving to where ever my significant other was, b/c if your not going to move, and they aren't going to move, then WHATS THE POINT!!!!! its would always be long distance!!!!!!!!!!"

answered by alo706

"Let it run its course. long distance relationships take twice as much effort and if you do not plan on moving eventually it will fade. you both will start meeting people that you would not normally meet well because you were together (same city). Give it a shot but I say it will last 3 months tops. "

answered by teejay0519

"Well, I was once in a long distance relationship, and it worked out just because I knew he was coming home after his basic training and AIT for the Army. It was truly hard for me because with him not being there, I would look at other men. Then if a man approached me, I would give him my phone number and I would talk to him. So for me it was difficult. And I mean difficult to stay faithful. And on top of it all, I really loved the guy at the time. It's the temptation that will kill you. You know, if you are willing to make it work, it probably can work. But you won't see her but once a month which sucks. Or if you break up, you could have lost a soulmate or something like that. Which every dicision you make, it still going to suck."

answered by amandalc